Notes 6 Nov

During the session, *Dorairaj D* shared the following reflections:

 

1. He spoke about his mental state before and after joining the *Chivality System.*

2. Earlier, Dorairaj used to worry a lot, suffer mentally, and live in constant fear. He also had superstitious beliefs.

3. He expressed his gratitude to *Ramesh Nivas* for introducing him to the Chivality System.

4. He has now developed the ability to view everything merely as an **incident**, without letting it affect his mind.

5. Earlier, he used to worry about the expenses of visiting *Mouna Mantapa*. Now, even if the travel is costly, it no longer disturbs his peace of mind.

6. After joining, he realized the true meaning of life, and all his fears have disappeared. He shared few learnings from the practice of Chivality.

6.1. To become *Shiva*, one must practice **detachment**.

6.2 . **Surrender** means having the feeling — “I want only Master and no one else.”

6.3. One can look upon the **Master as a father figure**.

6.4. To attain the state of *nothingness*, one should avoid **chinte** (worry).